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6 Ways To Keep The Critic Inside You At Bay

6-waysHave you heard the old saying, “Everyone is a critic?” It’s true. And, the biggest critic of all is staring right back at you through the mirror. No one has to come down hard on you because you are already putting yourself into a vicious head lock as it is. Keep reading to find out six ways that you can send that mean critic inside you packing.

They say that you can talk to yourself as long as you don’t answer back. I don’t believe that. If you don’t answer back, the potentially negative thoughts will continue unchallenged.  We often follow the patterns created in our minds by our thoughts. Allowing negative self-talk to dominate your mind can lead to low self-esteem, bad habits, depression, and other unhealthy results. So stop it! Do not let it continue!

6 Ways To Keep The Critic Inside You At Bay

  1. Don’t let the pressure get to you. Be proactive. Attack those thoughts as soon as they start to speak. Get creative.
  2. Box up your negativity. This can be literal or figurative. In the grand scheme of our life, each problem holds a small place overall. Seeing it as small minimizes its power over you. Those thoughts do not define who you are. Try this: Create a small box or purchase one. Whenever you are plagued by a negative thought about yourself for the way you handled a problem or because you made a mistake, write it down on a piece of paper. Put it away in that small box. See your issue diminishing in size.
  3. Replace negativity with positive self-talk. When a negative thought is removed something needs to fill its place in your mind. Exchange a negative, for a positive thought. If the negative thoughts can keep you down, then surely the positive ones can lift you up.
  4. Talk to a trusted friend. Explain the situation that made you feel so bad. Allow your friend to console you, counsel you and challenge that negative thought pattern that is condemning you.
  5. Get realistic. Was the situation as bad as you imagined it was? Maybe you are embellishing the story because of the negatives swirling in your mind? Take a realistic look at you and put things into perspective.
  6. Accept your imperfections. Don’t agree to disagree with certain attributes but embrace them. They are a part of you: the good, the bad, the ugly and the peculiar. Love who you are and then move on to making changes in your life.

Count your positives. It’s similar to counting your blessings. What is good about you? What have you done that is positive? Before you know it, you don’t feel bad anymore.

Don’t let that voice in your head overshadow your actual voice. Speak the truth and change your circumstances.

Heather Brummett

I am Heather Brummett . I'm just a real mom, sharing my real life experiences with the world. Thank you for being a part of my world. Here you will find recipes, crafts, fun ideas for the kids, how to work at home, encouragement, inspiration, and the latest news in and around Houston. To be featured or for information on freelance work contact me at [email protected]

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