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Why It’s Okay To Want A Big House

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We live in a culture today that is all about restraint and reducing our quality of life to a lower level. If you do a search on Google for why it’s okay to live in a big house, you’ll get a deluge of articles telling you how terrible it is. 

But if it really is as bad as people make out, why does virtually everyone with the means buy a large house? It doesn’t make sense. 

The main argument against upgrading your lifestyle seems to be the time that managing a large property takes. This sounds sensible on the surface, but when you dig a little deeper, it isn’t always true. Even if you live in a small house, you still have to tidy the living room and clean the bathroom. Things don’t automatically change when you upsize. 

The issue here seems to be one of social conformity. If you live in a large house, you’re deliberately elevating your own living conditions above people around you, and that can be a source of tension. 

In this post, we take a look at why it’s okay to live in a big house and some of the advantages that it brings.

It’s More Relaxed

Living in cramped accommodation can be quite stressful. You never have enough space for everything that you need to live a high-quality of life. You’re always having to make compromises. 

As anyone who has ever lived in a studio apartment will tell you, finding storage for everything you need is a nightmare. Often, you wind up turning the entire place into a series of shelves, just to keep your clothes, books and other items.

When you have a big house, though, these issues melt away. You no longer need to worry about whether you have space for all your hobbies because you have spare rooms, garages, sheds, outbuildings, basements and attics you can use.

It’s Quieter

Another problem with smaller lots or apartments is the noise from the people around you. This isn’t trivial. Research shows that when we’re exposed to background noises, it actually raises our blood pressure and stress levels and can make us feel panicked. 

The good news is that going to a bigger home, even if it involves cross country moving, can eliminate many of these problems. Being at a greater distance from your neighbors reduces noise levels and helps to improve your overall sense of wellbeing. 

It’s Better For Guests And Family

Lastly, living in a big home is much better for guests and family. If you’ve ever tried to stay in an apartment, you’ll know that things can get a little cramped. Usually you have to stay in the living room which means that you don’t get any privacy. 

The same is not true, however, of larger homes. Everyone who stays with you gets their own room, often with an attached bathroom. 
Furthermore, if you add children to your family, you have somewhere to put them. They can enjoy separate bedrooms instead of having to sleep in the same room.

Heather Brummett

I am Heather Brummett . I'm just a real mom, sharing my real life experiences with the world. Thank you for being a part of my world. Here you will find recipes, crafts, fun ideas for the kids, how to work at home, encouragement, inspiration, and the latest news in and around Houston. To be featured or for information on freelance work contact me at inspiringmommablog@gmail.com.

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